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When Everything is Urgent: How to Protect Your Capacity

September 15, 2026 · Marianne Skaaland Larsen

The Day with No Transitions

You reply to a message while looking for your keys. On your way to the next appointment, you think about the task you didn't finish. When you finally sit down, you start before you've determined what is actually the most important. Small mistakes become proof that you need to hurry even more.

Haste can become a cycle: Time pressure narrows attention, and the resulting mistakes create new time pressure. Yet, it is too simplistic to say that one part of the brain takes over while another stops functioning.

Stress Affects Us Differently

A meta-analysis of research on acute stress and central executive functions found that stress could weaken working memory and cognitive flexibility. The results varied between studies, functions, and stress trajectories. Stress is not a switch that makes clear thinking inaccessible to everyone.

Another meta-analysis of decision-making under uncertainty gathered 32 datasets with 1829 participants. Under stress, choices shifted slightly towards more risk, greater reward-seeking, and more unfavorable outcomes. The effect was small and depended on the decision-making situation. A more recent systematic review also emphasized that outcomes are influenced by task type, stressor, hormonal response, and gender.

This provides a more nuanced picture than saying that haste disables all thinking ability. Some quick decisions are good. Experienced professionals can effectively use recognition and practiced patterns when time is short. The problem arises particularly when demands exceed experience and capacity, when the task requires multiple explanations, or when haste has become the norm with no room for correction.

Heart rate variability, often called HRV, is used in research as a physiological marker. It is influenced by factors such as breathing, body position, physical fitness, sleep, illness, age, and measurement method. It cannot alone tell you whether you are thinking clearly, following your intuition, or making choices that align with your values.

Find the Stored Expectation

Ask what the haste is trying to prevent. Perhaps there is an expectation that a delay will lead to criticism, that a pause will cause everything to fall apart, or that you must prove your worth through speed. Then, “hurry up” can feel like security even when the pace increases the risk of mistakes.

A new outcome does not have to be that the entire day becomes calm. It could be that one clear transition makes you more precise.

Create Five Minutes with Less Friction

Try this before your next task:

  1. Stop parallel actions and write down one necessary next action.
  2. Distinguish between a real deadline and the feeling that everything is urgent.
  3. Remove one choice: close tabs, put away your phone, or prepare what you need.
  4. Notify early if the plan does not hold, instead of hiding the delay.

In Harmoni, you can register the situation where the pace rises, the expectation driving it, and a small alternative you want to test. The goal is not to become slow. It is to protect enough capacity to choose the pace based on the task, not just based on the alarm inside you.

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