1. Situations
2. Reactions
3. Emotions
4. Expectations
5. Truths
6. Needs
7. State
8. Action Strategies and Reflexes
9. Discomfort
10. Pain
11. Consequences
Focus on the consequences
Your reactions can happen so quickly that, within a short time, you experience multiple reactions and consequences. Once you enter a negative reaction cycle, it can be difficult to stop.
Often, it’s only when you see the consequences that you realize the impact they’ve had on you.